Do we need a Role model?

In walk of our lives, we meet many people, learn many things from many. Sometimes many inspire us to achieve certain goals and few remain as our role models in life. 

Here, what triggered in my mind is “Do we need a Role Model?” someone has yearned for some goals and achieved it with his level of problems and solutions which he has applied. If so, why should one follow role model, isn’t it like following someone else dreams and trying to achieve them .

Are we not restricting our self wanting to be like someone? closing our self and just seeing role model goal as ours? 

Don't just dream that wasn’t yours, Thinking that it would bring  the happiness as it brought to others.

So what do you say?

Take care of yourself...

I feel things are going too fast and I have to try hard to pull time to breath. The other night, I was thinking that, I have reached mid of the year, when I look back I don't remember how the days passed, weekdays go in working at office and weekends with the other core works.Life is busy and it always pulls me in million directions.

I see many young people who are raising their families at younger age with huge responsibilities, probably they never find time to take care of themselves.All their energies go in to helping and taking care of families & other things. I hear from many about their feelings of helplessness to dedicate some amount of time for themselves. Most of the active day goes in  working, few more hours in family cores. They get irritated with the ups and downsin life and lose all control.

I'm wondering how people deal and  How is everyone else doing?

Still the question triggering in  my mind is "Is it bad to be selfish and take care of oneself ?"  to me it is not, one must take care of themselves to help others. Pull out time for yourself, do something which makes you happy. You can rejuvenate and can be more effective & efficient in handling your families & your life.

That is what I feel? what is your opinion?

So, you are not a S/W engineer?

Dialling a number….

Tring tring tring….

Me: Hi

He: hello

Me: I saw your advertisement on the club membership. I would like to know the details as I wish to join for TT on weekend

He: sure madam, membership costs you Rs. 1500 and every month its Rs. 300 and we have trainers too

Me: Oh that is so nice; let me know the formalities, so that I can drop in to your office today evening

He: where do you work?

Me: a Civil engineering company

He: what is ur designation

Me: Urban Planner

He: Oh you are not a software engineer. Sorry madam, this club gives membership to S/w Engineers from MNCs

Me: WTF??(To self)

Me: I asked why?

He: Security & affordability madam and people here are all s/w engineers...

Me: Thank you, better u mention this in your Add to save our time

What do you think about this? I have met many half knowledge people, who think S/w engineering is the only industry that exists. Come on, there are much better ones too exist. If not how other services are being done to the citizens. The wrong impression they have on other industries is disgusting….people think that s/w engineers are the only ones who earn a lot than any one...

 I hope these kind of people will grow up and think about this...

What if there were no men in the World????

In middle of some discussion , someone told according to 2011 census sex ratio is  940 females per 1000 males... My mind was completely  heated up because of  prolonged discussions... when I heard of sex ratio concept I was wondering what if men doesn't exist in this world?

Just imagine, how it would be if God has not created man for woman.... Holy shit.... Think! Think..

It scares me, Imagine living whole life with women.. Grrrrrr.. same old lipsticks, shinny gloss, rose perfumes, pinks & red everywhere, floral printed fabrics, Unlimited gossips... Its pathetic .. 

I seriously wonder if men doesn't exist, then Who will praise us when we dress nicely? who will flirt with us, Who will say its okay baby when we are sick, who will hold our hand in the evening for a romantic walk?who will scold us saying "you dumbo"? who will hold our shopping bags, who will take us everywhere on their bike? How can we use credit card without repaying ? who will makes us feel secure in their Hug?  Phewww.... Ufff.. on and so on...

Coming to the biological threats,imagine..how can we become mothers?? Well do we introduce any new technology for producing babies?  if so, who it would be?

Ahhh!! the world looks so Dull and Sick without men...

Thats what I feel.. what do you all have to say about this??

I appreciate God for creating men  in this world & I Thank him for that :P  ...

P.S: 

1. Term "WE" Refers to Girls &  ladies

2. Office on weekends make u feel sick and u turn out to be foolishly intelligent... this post says it   out.. Ahh I have to kill another 30  min more here :(

3. I am happy that i have put on 2 kgs weight.. Irrelevant to many of you, but still recording it on my Blog TL..

A Beautiful Morning

I promised my friend that we both will get up early and go for a cup of coffee in the morning. But this awesome weather didn't allowed me to realize that the sun is already out there. I opened my eyes, searched for mobile and sent a text  saying "sorry", he replied “that’s fine dear, catch some more sleep”. 

I got up looked out of the window, chill breeze touched my face, felt what a beautiful morning, I sat in balcony with a cup of coffee, listening to my fav songs, watching the flock of pigeons... 

The morning was bright, after a very long hot summer, Hyderabad is having such an awesome weather. I felt to break the routine, but cannot bunk office. 

I felt positive vibrations around me, I thought, I need this harmony throughout the day, 

      So Just for Today ...

• I will be happy and smile at everyone. 
• I will try to accept what I am 
• I will call an old friend and say “Hi” 
• I will say sorry for someone whom I have hurt in past 
• I will help someone who is in need 
• I will be thankful to god & say a thanks prayer 
• I will not let anything upset me. 
• I will enjoy the traffic. 
• I will do my work honestly 
• I will not allow negative thoughts 
• I will not spend too much money. 
• I will learn a something new. 
• I will keep faith in the god’s plans and accept what life brings.

Love & Light to All...

Teach People How to Treat You

Many times I feel why I have allowed someone to treat me that way? Why am I letting it happen that way and be tolerant? 

Just like me I guess many people do think, I heard people saying that “people use me, take advantage of me”, they are taken for granted and get hurt from the other person easily. 

While thinking of this I was wondering if I am complaining about this all the time, there must be something wrong with me. May be I have not taught the other person, how to treat me. 

The problem with me is I am very good at tolerating people for no reason and can’t be rude. Well in return what am I getting? I am sure I deserve to be treated with the same respect as what I give to others. I should define boundaries; it is me who can draw a line to determine how close I can be with a person to maintain a decent relationship. 

So I think I shall be clever and teach the other person, how to treat me from the beginning  so that things won’t go wrong later. 

Bottom line is one must treat themselves as if they are wonderful and shall not allow others to walk on you. Be good to yourself, because if you feel good about yourself then other people will treat you with respect. 

It’s we who teach people how to treat us!

P.S: Today morning,I got up early, was just enjoying nature sipping a cup of coffee in the balcony, a weird random thought/feeling  flashed my mind and this post took birth from there. 

The Idiots on the Road

Our Indian roads are the busiest roads, where ever we go, we see them filled with vehicles, people, hawkers, foot path shops etc etc. sometimes I feel, a large portion of population lives on road. 

It is not wonder, if I say its nightmare to drive on these roads. We blame government, other people for this congestion on roads, but I strongly believe it is not the number of vehicles, but it is the way we use our roads makes it more congested and driving is irritation. 

I have closely observed many people on the road; some of the attitudes of the people on the roads are not at all accepted by any civilized society. 

I would like to list out some traits of few people on roads. 

Name	Traits	What they think
Honking batch	More irritating at the signals, use horn more than gear, impatient, illogical, selfish, have weird horns	When they honk at signal Vehicles can fly and clear road for them (even the light shows red)
Noisy one	Think they are alone, speak loud, discuss all personal things, have mobile always near their ears, use headphones when can’t hold mobile, gets into fight fast	Road is their house, no need to follow rules, can overcome any argument by shouting
Aggressive	Busy people, starts late, but wants to reach destination in time, always drives as if they miss flight. park vehicle where ever possible irrespective of creating congestion.	One minute matters a lot to them. if they are comfortable, they never think of others.
Risk taker	Drive fast even when road is busy, think they are good drivers & road is their racing track, nothing can put them down, always try to be an inch ahead of others	We are born perfect  riders ,Can drive in air too
Slow driver	May be like me, who drives slow, not confident in driving, but still drives in the middle of the road, disturbing others, gets irritated whn someone says they are slow.	We are not in hurry, please you can over take me if you have any emergency
Spit batch	Spit anywhere any time, not even looking right left, up & down . Throw banana skins, all waste from the windows	I don’t care once it is out of my mouth, I want my car to be clean, why should i worry about the road

Have you all ever experienced this traits on roads?


P.S:   for god sake never honk in the signals and in traffic jams, it adds to the irritation
P.S.S:   please just look around before you spit 

P.S.S:   The post is written with my own experience,  i am not responsible for any hurt caused to you, i understand i have   right to say what i feel.