Fear, Fear ! "Fear" Fear? Fear.

Fear of change 

Fear of failure 

Fear of losing 

Fear of falling 

Fear of dark 

Fear of loneliness 

Fear of death 

Fear of poverty 

Fear of insecurity 

Fear of hurt 

Fear of rejection 

Fear of flaws 

Fear to quit 

Fear of choices 

                       The list goes On and on… 

Many of us fail to fulfil our dreams as we are living with fears. Every one of has some kind of fear in them, but not all the fears dictate every one. Some people learn to accept and cope up with fear and other tends to hold on them throughout their life and never take a chance to drop the fear. 

Fear is a distressing emotion aroused by impending danger, evil, pain, etc., 

Fear is not always real, it is imaginary or we misinterpret the situation and worry about result, or maybe it was result of our past misjudgement. Fear always imposes limitations on our success; it ruins our potentiality and ability to do things or to act. Fear holds you back and keeps us stuck in life. When your fear grows bigger, you block the dreams. Imagine where we would have struck in our life, if we had no courage to attempt anything? 

To overcome fear and to fulfill our dreams we should fill our mind with positive thoughts and make no room for fears. Dare to come out, risk and move forward. 

Have faith and do the things you believe in. Your faith will never let you down. 

Build courage, Do not let your fears choose your destiny. Never make fear a reason for quitting anything in your life

Do the things that scare you most and you can control fear.

Fear less, breathe more. Fear less, love more. Fear less. Live more. ~ unknown

Have a fearless life!!!

Cheers!!!

Bharathi

The Versatile Blogger Award and it goes to ..

When I opened my inbox today, I read a mail with my mouth wide open, Do you Know Why? I have received my second blog award, Woooooo!!!

I am so happy to receive this award, Bundle of Thanks to Divya Pramil, who awarded this to me, she has a wonderful blog on cooking  You too can cook I suggest everyone must Visit 

So coming to the Rules/Rituals of the Versatile Blogger Award are as Follows:

1. Thank the Blogger who nominated you [   I  Did :)  ] 

2. Add the Versatile Blog Award picture to your blog post ( its here ...)

3. Nominate 15 Fellow Bloggers (scroll down to know)

4. Inform the Bloggers of their nomination (right after posting I will inform) 

5. Share 7 random things about yourself ( look the bottom of the page)

And now the Award goes to..

1. Sreekanth The Undefined Lounge

2. Komathi Still, always, forever 

3. Red  Red handed  

4. Seяendipity Little moments of bliss

5. Ashwini CN Just the way I like

6. Pee vee Confessions Of The Chocolate Obsessed™

7. Ranjith A light hearted talk 

8. Joshi Daniel   Joshi Daniel Photography 

 

9. Leo paw  Bigbitz

10. Tales of Tall Guy  tales of a tall guy 

11. Rupertt Wind    Pages off Life

12. Poorvi Shrivastav   Look Ahead

13. Rachit Sharma   Weakest LINK

14. Seema   Seema's

15. Kinnara   k$h@hz\/\/0Rld

 7 Random Things About me :P


1. I talk a lot (People love and hate me for same reason :P)

2. I am obsessed with clothes and footwear (  But always end up in disappointment coz i wont get my size)

3. I go for hair cut very often. (Feels good to change the style :P)

4.  I love to watch movie on big screen sipping a large coke( full of ice cubes)

5. I don’t like nerd guys.

6. I like to bargain.

7. I love long rides, Midnight walks :)

That's all about me..

Congratulations to all the Award Winners !!!

And now...

Rest to my key board :)

With love,
Bharathi.

Our Little Angel

Silky hair 

Beautiful eyes 

Red cheeks 

Pink lips 

Tender skin

Tiny little arms and feet ...

A sweet baby girl came home ,

She is the most beautiful child, 

She filled our hearts with pride, 

Joy of holding her in my arms for very first day, skipped my heart beats, 

The innocence in her eyes and her smile made our hearts melt, 

Delight of cuddling her and watching her play cannot be replaced, 

She is been sent straight from heaven up above... 

To be Our little Angel ,

We promise to love her with all our heart,

We will comfort her when she cries, 

We cannot wait to watch her grow,

God bless her, as she grows, let her be sweet and kind,

and shine like a diamond






This post is written as a part of the contest at BlogAdda.com in association with  imlee.com

Yes I am Brown Skinned Girl!

From past few months, my parents are seeking a Mr. Right for me, recently I got to meet this person who is a dark chap, average in his looks, well educated and mannered etc etc. we shared our profiles and photographs. After this level of screening, we wait to hear from the person, and the same happened here too. After two days we got a call from the bureau saying that guy wanted a fair girl and you daughter is brown skinned. Grrrrrrrrrrr!! A dark chap calling me dark :) 

Many of us see shocking ads which show girls landing in to good jobs and succeeding in careers because they are fair skinned. Many of the Indian girls are indeed obsessed with the fair skin and run behind the fairness creams.

This is unfortunate in a country like us where we are all genetically brown skinned. In this run, many teenage girls has developed inferiority complex and are heavily buying these fairness creams in the hope of lightening their skin color,.

Be it the girl or the parents, having a fair skin means good job opportunities and better matrimonial proposal, which truly translates into bright future. I guess the saga of fair skin can be traced back to our Vedic ages.

But today I wonder we all are so educated and why  are we not understanding being fair has nothing to do with our social status in society and won’t stop us in succeeding in our careers

We are beautiful, beyond our skin color.

I believe that Passion, vision and clear ambition is a sexy trait for every woman. Whole world appreciate a successful women. 

So what do you think about this??

Busy Life... Simplified

 And in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count.
It’s the life in your years.
- Abraham Lincoln

If She Knew

 Sparking Lights
Classy People
Loud Music
Smoke Cloud
Crazy Dances....
                          She smiled and entered the pub

She saw him, and was frozen at his smile may be "Love at First Sight"

It was strange  and felt connected to him

His charm was mesmerizing,

He looked at her, she smiled, he moved near to her

They exchanged a lot over conversations.. both were lost inside their world...

.......

.......

.......

The sun rays hit her eyes and she realizes  night is all gone, 

Looks around with half opened  eyes and saw him gathering his clothing

Whole night flashes before her eyes, pub, drinks, dance, driving back to her flat..

She: Are you leaving?" 

He : "I need to.. Right? 

She: When shall we meet again? your number ?

He: May be never

Pause

She: But why?

He:ever heard of one night stand?

Silence Prevails...

She: When we made love, why did you show me feelings of care
He:   Dear I did then but no more...

That is  what we call One Night Stand

Letter to Rapist

Dear all Rapists,

We both have never met, and I wish I will not meet you. But every day I hear about you guys (“Rapists”) in all possible forms of media. Oh fuck you guys are so famous; damn you should be ashamed of being so, rather you guys are happy that you got away from whatever you have done.

You bastards never pay for what you have done to all these kids, girls and ladies. Do you have any idea, how your deed is going to affect these innocent souls and their families & friends? How can you have fun when a girl pushes you hard with her hands? How can you derive enjoyment over a weak girl who begs you and says No 100 times? 

 

You Assholes, are also brothers, husbands and fathers to someone in this world, inspite of that how can you not realize the pain of a rape victim, you push them out of this world and take away all their happiness from their lives. Make their lives miserable. Do you think our society have same attitude towards the victims? They have to battle with society and again with your brutal breed. All these dark things haunt the victim.

You perverted man will ever your ego realize how much you have hurt others. How could you think something like this was okay to do to someone? Why do you lead such a bloody life? May be your confident on our poor law and its easy for criminals to escape from punishment.

I think you don’t have a conscious. How could someone with a conscious do this to innocent girls?! You are also a selfish shit. You just care for yourself. You have never treated other person as a human it was just an “object”, an object of joy

Bloody rapists realize “Rape is not Sex” if you can’t afford sex and cannot control yourself better “DIE” rather behaving like brutal bastards and filling darkness in someone’s life.

I hope one day you will meet a strong and smart girl who will hurt you the same way you did to all, and waiting for that one day you will be in prison or hanged in the public.

I pray god that you will suffer 100 times more than the victims and bear the guilt for whatever you have done


Sincerely, 

The breed you fucked


P.S: i am sorry for using abusive words, but i believe they deserve them