Friday, February 18, 2011

Then & Now...

Me: hi

My fren: hey, hru?

Me: ya grt hw abt u?

My fren: ya gud

Blah Blah Balh.....After 10 min..

My fren : hhhvf

Me: wht does tht mean?

My fren: ha ha ha very funny

Me :uff (  thinking ..”this is wht our English”)

This was the chat with my friend, “hhhvf” this made me to think about the English what we use in our daily chats and while texting over mobile phones

If I correctly remember, 2000 was the year when my English got messed up big time. That was the time when I got exposed to the concept of chatting through Yahoo Messenger, MSN and so on…

Not only my English I think every form of communication got affected like…
  • No one uses hand written letters (bad time for postal department)
  • Same hold good for greeting cards 
  • No personal photo albums ..
I knw there are many more, but right now these flashed my mind….

You share information just by a click of button and receive everything in a flash of seconds. Besides all these our verbal and written English changed.

Honestly, the other reason for this change is time, yes who have time to meet people for long and lovely conversations by taking out the time out of their busy days , drive long .. Instead, everything can be conveyed by sitting at home over mobile phones 

I honestly understand what this lovely language has given all of us. And I wish that ,this won’t be messed up further in our chats & texting .

Ths is wht I wnt 2 tell u ppl, u knw wht I’m tryng 2 say

thts all 4m me..Hbu?

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

I & U... What If we cud understand each other?

Women: Men won’t listen to women

Men: Women talk a lot

Men forget everything; Women remember everything.

Women: When a relationship ends, a woman will cry and pour her heart out to her girlfriends, and she will write a poem titled "All Men Are Idiots". Then she will get on with her life.

Men: A man has a little more trouble letting go. Six months after the break-up, at 3:00 a.m. on a Saturday night, he will call and say, "I just wanted to let you know you ruined my life, and I'll never forgive you, and I hate you, and you're a total floozy. But I want you to know that there's always a chance for us." This is known as the "I Hate You / I Love You" drunken phone call, that 99% of all men has made at least once.
Women take clothing much more seriously than men. I've never seen a man walk into a party and say "Oh, my God, I'm so embarrassed; get me out of here. There's another man wearing a black blazer.”

Hmmm the list goes on…

Human Race is categorized based on gender. From the day a person is born he/she is identified by the gender. Gender issues started from the day god created EVE and ADAM. Till now the men and women are trying to cope up with each other.

Difference in opinions, thoughts, interests, actions, decisions. They just complain at each other. I have a question do we really need/possible to have some one who is similar in thoughts and interests. Isn’t boring?? Right?

In relation if you respect each other opinions or interests, u can explore many new things together. Rather doing that, we make the relationship complicated and then search for help over  friends,Google and online forums. “How to make my GF/BF/partner happy and what could be my next step?” Do we really have to change ourselves based on some articles and books?

Gals change to please their boyfriend and change themselves and after quite time u r not the one whom he loved. There!!! Starts the clash “u have changed” “no you have changed” CRAP!! Y don’t you understand that the other person has chosen you over everybody, without any logic or theory he/she has fallen in love with you and today you try applying the theories and judge your partner ?

To put it in simple terms “Men” struggle every day to meet the goals imposed by the society, are expected to hold down steady jobs, provide for themselves and their families and to do everything (including in relationships) with "honor". It doesn’t mean that women are not under such obligations. Women too work and try to make a perfect home and are tired of doing both.

Both men and women are:

Self-centered & selfish, Deep inside everyone is looking for love ,Will start a fight either side, will lose temper, Need appreciation from the other, Jealous, suspicious

Women view commitment as security, future, family, love, closeness, support and many other "good" things, men often view commitment as responsibility, stress, loss of freedom, loss of choice, a life of toiling to meet the demands of that relationship, and many other "bad" things! In fact, these are very common feelings among most men.

There are differences, coz of various reasons (biological and societal) , but we need each other. When you love ur partner, we don’t see the flaws. Discuss, respect each other opinions. Give preference to each other U can built your own wonderful & beautiful world. Don’t ever give up a relation .Be careful with your words. Once they’re said, they can only be forgiven, NOT forgotten.


Don't search for Prince Charming! They don’t exist, or married, engaged, gay, or don’t know what they want. LOWER ur expectations. If he wants you, he’ll say it, if he cares, he’ll show it. If not, he's not worth your time! So try NOT to fall for someone who isn’t willing to catch you and curse the rest.

Guyz ,
Treat women the same way you would want your daughter to be treated. Why cheat in relationships? If you’re not happy, be honest and finish the relationship with some dignity

Finally Life's to short to hide feelings. So don’t be afraid to tell people how u feel. You never know if they have the same feelings

At the end of the day, Being loved in return brings you happiness words can't explain

So Guyz & Gals…
When you are wrong, admit it; when you are right, shut the hell up.. 


P.S: Few lines are quoted from internet sources.

If I were a Boy

I am just wondering why I was born as a gal and not a guy. If I had a choice I would have preferred to be a guy for all the stupid reasons I have:

I wud hv dressed up the way I want, Wear the baggy things, walk down on the street with faded shorts

Leave the hair uncombed, grow beard 

Have a big tattoo on shoulder. 

Get a great bike and drive long distances (experience the speed) 

Roam on streets till what ever time I want  and whenever I want 

Would have chosen mountaineering  as my profession

Experienced harsh words from dad 

Drink beers(list continues)  with friends in a beach 

Break the rules according to my Wish 

Enjoy night life 

Flirt with many gals and date many ;-)

Less gossiping 

Wud hv done crazy & Wild acts

Loved a pretty gal, experienced her love and wud have never hurt my baby ( as i knw how it feels)

Wud hv never cheated on my partner.

Finally I will experience how it feels like to be a guy !

Life would have been so much more WONDERFUL!

Not that being a girl life is miserable or anything; it has its own merits..