Why I prefer to be single???

No need to deal with irritating in –laws 

I don’t need to remember any anniversaries, extra birthdays, and do extra family shopping

I can just be myself and no need to change my life for someone’s priorities

I can move on globe wherever  I want

I deal with my own insecurities, and have to fix my own disasters of life

I don’t have to live with a person who won’t accept me as i am

I don’t need to worry whether the other person is true to me or not

I can focus more on career & my dreams and weekends are completely mine

I can meditate and have time for my own

The money whatever i earn, will spend on my own things and no need to share my Debit/Credit cards

I want to say goodbye to the trends of dumping & being dumped. and want to stay "SINGLE"

"Being Single" may look like I am selfish and  give priority for my own happiness, but its not true.. sharing should be done when it is worth...

I was born alone and will die alone, so i just don't want to fool myself thinking about love and trust of someone which could be an illusion or a nightmare... I think love is  extinct today. In this world i just trust myself and i am happy and peaceful . I don't expect, so i don't get hurt and i believe it is the best way to live life

P.S: This is my mind status at this point of time. i am not discouraging people who are getting married. 

To all the Respectful Men !!

Its time to learn something about Men...

Who is a boy / man ?

A boy/man is one of the most beautiful creations of God.

He starts compromising at very tender age. He sacrifices his chocolates for his sister.

Later he sacrifices his love for just a smile on his parents face. He sacrifices his love for his wife and children by working late nights.

He builds their future by taking loans from banks and then repaying them for the life time. Thus he sacrifices full youth for his wife and children without any complain.

He struggles a lot but still has to hear the music (scolding) of Mother, wife and his boss.
Yet every mother, wife and boss tries to have control over him.

Finally his life ends up by compromising for others happiness. He is that creature of God who no one can compete with.

Respect every boy/man in your life. You will never know what he has sacrificed for you.

Just extend your hand when he needs it and you shall receive twice fold love from him.

Enough Of Girls /women / Wife Emotional Mails Now… Boys also Have Emotions and Respect.

P.S: It is a forward mail, felt worth blogging.. so here it is.. 

WHY???

Why people spend their time in trying to find out why others are happy ?

Why people can forget all the nice things and just remember one mistake ?

Why people lead their life as if world’s burden is on their head ?

Why people can’t answer when asked,”what’s wrong?”

Why people stop living life in their own way and start complaining that “you have changed” ?

Why people don’t have sense of style ?

Why do people hurt others?

Why do people cheat each other?

Are you stupid or trying to commit slow suicide? ??

My Dear Friends,

Today I am here to introduce a very good friend of many of us:

He is a friend, whom you want to keep all the time.

He controls you totally

Whenever you are in movie or a closed hall, he asks you to take him out so that he can enjoy the surrounding.

Irrespective of place and time he asks you to pick him up.

He has a peculiar odor.

He has 81 Cancer Causing Chemicals Plus 4,000 Extra Chemicals

He sits on your chest and makes your breath difficult

He helps colds and flu catch you easily.

He is expected to kill up to 2.5 million middle-aged humans.

He causes cancers, Heart disease , Stained teeth, fingers, and hair, Asthma , Gastrointestinal difficulties, Headaches, Leukoflakia (smoker's patch), Insomnia , Heart murmur Buerger's disease (inflammation of blood vessel linings) , Shortness of breath, Arthritis , Smoker's hack, Nervousness Wrinkles and premature aging. 

When he no longer wishes to have your company Instead of letting you go your separate ways, he decides to kill you.

Well, this is the story of your "friend," your cigarette. No real friend would do all this to you. Cigarettes are the worst possible enemies you ever had. They are expensive, addictive, socially unacceptable, and deadly.consider all these and Never take another Puff

Breathe deep, hug hard, and live long!

If you are a smoker, quit ! If you are a not a smoker, get people to quit! Talk to a friend, your spouse, a smoker! Help Them


Its never late make you choice and  choose..

Which Battle Is Easier?

The battle to quit smoking today
or the battle to save a diseased
or dying body tomorrow?

Still you want to smoke? Here is the badge for you from me

With Love
Bharathi

P.S: Compiled from http://whyquit.com